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Grrr - Men Behaving Badly
And the women who refuse to suffer anymore!
Yet ANOTHER friend of mine is dealing with a lying scumbag of a man who has played with her feelings and made promises only to 'change his mind' and tell her 'sorry, it just didn't work out'.. THIS after living with her for five years and finally proposing marriage.

I've been around the block a few times, I have a past habit of attracting gay men who are looking for someone to give them some cover until they were ready to come out of the closet, I've FINALLY found and moved to be with someone who respects me, is honest with me and accepts me as I am.

I'm just so angry. This friend of mine is disabled and quite locked into this situation, it will take quite a feat for her to break away from this guy and move on. While they were planning their wedding he was trolling at an online dating site and has plans to travel out of state to meet someone new.

I would love nothing more than to get on a plane and go knock this bastard around, she has given him NOTHING but space to 'get his shit together' and decide what he wants. She's put up with a total lack of sexual satisfaction and financial issues on his behalf, and he waits UNTIL they've set a wedding date to pull this shit on her.

No, I don't think he should have gone through with the wedding IF he doesn't love her.. but I cannot get over how CHICKENSHIT he is.

What has become of HONESTY? Why do people feel the need to play these kinds of games with peoples' emotions?


Current Mood: angry angry

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sammynella From: sammynella Date: September 28th, 2004 05:33 am (UTC) (Link)
Here, here! Total absolute assinine bullshit!
From: redemptive_acts Date: July 8th, 2005 11:37 pm (UTC) (Link)

Just a reality pat

Ok, this guy sounds like a total sh**head but don't forget that she actually chose him, chose to wait for him 5 years and chose to move in with him without a ring and a date (I know that sounds all Dr. Laura and crap but sometimes it makes sense)

Take it as one more lesson in self-respect. Learn from her mistakes. If you don't respect yourself enough to keep someone out of your pants until marriage how can you expect to attract someone who respects you? Unless sex is just animal instinct and not the deep spiritual bond it was intended to be.
belethcalwen From: belethcalwen Date: December 25th, 2007 11:56 am (UTC) (Link)

Re: Just a reality pat

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