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Loser of the Week Nominee - Men Behaving Badly
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Loser of the Week Nominee
So Travis and I dated for almost 5 years. I chose to break up with him because he has been done with school for 1.5 years and hasn't found A.N.Y. K.I.N.D. of J.O.B.. I think that if he really wanted to marry me, he would have found SOMETHING by now.
We have puppies together... furnishings in storage... the whole nine yards.

Because of how long we dated and the fact that we have "children" together means that I said okay when he asked if we could still hang out. However, this has proven to be a bad idea because even though I have twice clarified with him that we have indeed, broken up, he still refers to me as his girlfriend and "sweetheart".
My point: Last night we met to chat and get Coldstone ice cream (hmm, Coldstone). We were having a nice conversation when he started whining that his dad yelled at him for still being in bed at 9 in the morning instead of getting up to look for a job.
He has never taken criticism well.
He then said that he would start getting up a 7 when I lost 100 pounds.
Any thoughts?
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joscelin From: joscelin Date: May 5th, 2004 02:29 am (UTC) (Link)
In my book ANYONE who tries to play the weight card by way of making a threat is an INSTANT LOSER.

Damn anyone who punches at a persons self esteem by making a comment like that.

lunarchk From: lunarchk Date: May 5th, 2004 02:39 am (UTC) (Link)
You had me worried for a second. My husband's name is Travis and he had an ex named Jen who had become overweight. I could totally see him making a comment like that. Hey, I think they dated for 5 years too.

Your Travis sounds like a jerk. He doesnt sound like he respects you, so dump him. You don't need some lazy jerk putting you down.
msmcfeeley From: msmcfeeley Date: May 5th, 2004 02:55 am (UTC) (Link)
He wins. Hands down.
fishy808 From: fishy808 Date: July 21st, 2004 03:12 am (UTC) (Link)
i think you should just leave this guy already. if ever he got around to even asking you to marry him, what kind of a father figure would he be? hes gunna sit aruond on his ass all day while you play the little house wife. stand up for yourself and do what yuo think is best. we all know how hard it is to let a relationship go but there are better things out there and you should go out an see them before yuo settle down with this loser.


bluewerth From: bluewerth Date: July 21st, 2004 03:20 am (UTC) (Link)
Did it. We are done. I have moved on. I think he had finally found a job now.
fishy808 From: fishy808 Date: July 21st, 2004 03:48 am (UTC) (Link)

good im happy for you

but it must have been hard? youre better off now and im sure better oportunitys will come.... (:D)


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